You have to make it not matter. Alchemize. Neutralize. You try. You fail. No matter! You ask. You’re rejected. No matter. You give. You’re taken for granted. No matter! They judge you. They’re wrong. No matter! You play. You lose. No matter! You play again. You lose again. No matter! You knock. The door slams.… Continue reading None of This Has to Matter
Author: LizAV68
My Personal Obituary for My Dad | Processing the Death of My Childhood Abuser
Grieving and processing the loss of a care giver that was also a primary abuser in nothing short of confusing. I write this in hopes to help others to find freedom to process their own truth- no matter how messy it is.
I’m on a FUN hunt!
For the empath, highly sensitive, and/or introvert Maybe you can help me find some fun! When you are empathic, highly sensitive and have a history of abuse, fun can be almost a foreign feature in your life- at least that is what I have come to realize. What do I mean by fun? I mean…… Continue reading I’m on a FUN hunt!
My Life, My Way
I used to believe that my life was all something that I was given to endure. I believed I had little if any choices about the way it would unfold.I lived day to day, by default, in survival mode, hoping that God would look upon me favorably and see fit to bless my life and… Continue reading My Life, My Way
50+ Years of Wisdom
It took over half a century for me to love me- just as I am… Without any beautyWithout any joyWithout much talentWithout any friends With all my flab and flawsWith my moody dispositionWith a body oft’ in painWith my constant indecision Over 50 years of living before I finally let go… Of how I appear… Continue reading 50+ Years of Wisdom